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Discover Why “The Thinking Environment” Is Crucial – Part 4

Everybody knows a little appreciation goes a long way. In part 4 of the Ten Components of “The Thinking Environment” I delve a little deeper into how we can apply this principle to our business environment for the best results.

“Clients do not come 1st. Employees come 1st. If you take care of your employees, they will take care of your customers”. Sir Richard Branson

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Component Four – Appreciation

Principle

“The human mind works best in the presence of appreciation.”

Definition

“Practicing a 5:1 ratio of appreciation to challenge.”

People work better in harmonious situations where they are valued.

Not being valued not only hinders connecting, but also the ability to open one’s mind up to perspectives. Being appreciated stimulates the desire to want to participate.

Personal Experience

In my experience, there is a fine line between showing genuine appreciation towards someone and going overboard or being ‘syrupy sweet’ per se and making comments based on what you think the other person wants to hear.

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I always check myself to ensure my intent is honest about my words of appreciation – of what or how the person has influenced me in what I am being grateful for, instead of just making them feel good.

I have found that when showing appreciation as a result of a true reflection of what impacted me about them, it creates connection with the other person and gives them the gift of seeing themselves through the other person’s eyes.

Appreciation of others is subjective as behaviours and their perceived impact affect people differently.

What I appreciate in someone, others may not. This is the beauty of seeing yourself through someone else eyes.

There are so many versions of reality out there and showing genuine appreciation to someone, gives them a clearer and positive picture of themselves.

Conclusion

Today we live in an analytical world, identifying problems and issues (challenges) and constantly trying to improve.

This perspective is the norm in business, hence this five to one ratio for Appreciation to Challenge in the Component of Appreciation which reminds us that often we don’t need to find problems and criticise what we think is not going well, but rather understand and focus on the positive and by enhancing that – often the problems solve themselves. It is this attitude that invites more diverse perspectives and more realities into the picture, which in itself can provide the solutions to many challenges.

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Discover Why “The Thinking Environment” Is Crucial – Part 3

In part 3 of my overview of the Ten Components of “The Thinking Environment” I look at the 3rd component EASE!

This is a very important component because our presence and state of mind in the moment has a direct impact on the perception and response of the person or group we are communicating with.

The Thinking EnvironmentComponent Three – Ease

Principle

“Offering freedom from internal rush or urgency.”

Definition

“Ease, an internal state free from rush or urgency, creates the best conditions for thinking. Ease creates; urgency destroys.”

Personal Experience

This the ‘take a deep breath’ Component for me. In mindfulness practices, one learns how to: “pay attention – in the present moment and nonjudgmentally to whatever arises in the field of your experience”.

” This resonates with me, as feeling at ease or creating ease with another, facilitates my connection with them.

When I am in a rush or agitated, I am not at ease and I certainly don’t put those at ease around me. My mind is not present, I am not focused or engaged, and I am certainly not in a thinking frame of mind.

I am a detail orientated, “black and white” person, and an organiser by nature. A consequence of this is that I am also a worrier. My mom always said that if don’t have any problems of my own, I will borrow somebody else’s, just to have something to worry about.

This makes me very conscious (okay, not always, but I am a work in progress) how ill at ease I can make others, so I have to be very mindful of my state of mind when engaging with others, to not only respect them but ensure they can connect with me through my calmer demeanour.

Conclusion

Creating internal ease for others, derived from providing a sense of comfort and security; and practicing the first two Components of Attention and Equality, create a solid foundation on which overall Ease can be created for someone else.

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Discover Why “The Thinking Environment” Is Crucial – Part 2

In part 2 of my overview of the Ten Components of “The Thinking Environment” I look at the 2nd component EQUALITY!

A truly vital component in any business, NEEDED, to make the best decisions for the company and it’s people. We simply cannot afford to discount the power of equality when it concerns survival and growth in the business environment.

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Component Two – Equality

Principle

“Even in a hierarchy people can be equal as thinkers.”

Definition

“Treating each other as thinking peers; giving equal turns and attention; keeping boundaries and agreements.”

Giving someone your authentic attention when they talk is not only a sign of respect which enhances a feeling of value in the speaker, it is also where a sense of equality is borne.

Our connected, competitive world relies on us saying more and pushing the self-promotion envelope to be heard. This results in a loss of the ability to respect that others also have a right to be heard.

Personal Experience

I am constantly trying to improve my own mindful behaviour – in the context of being aware of my impact on others through being present in each moment.

Being a managing director and head of many staff meeting forums with divisions and staff, kept me on my toes with my own awareness and behaviour regarding this Component.

I didn’t think of it as ‘equal’ then, but rather as respecting each person individually and letting them know it. Of course, this is equality, and through practising this individual respect in staff meetings where there are hierarchies, I have found the most impact and reward with staff.

Feeling heard makes people feel they matter and what they say and think has value and could contribute to a bigger picture, of which they are a part of and not just working for. This is the differentiator – it is inclusive.

The knock on benefit is a staff culture of engaged and committed workers, who now have a personal stake for taking initiative and thinking outside their own box.

By coming up with ideas and proactively thinking about scenarios – not only do they learn and grow, but the company takes an interest in their thought process and perspective.

Conclusion

Awareness of equality in this context is an imperative leadership skill. Leaders that are successful create resonance with followers by their own behaviour self-management and awareness, and managing relations with others.

Practicing and managing equality removes ego from a group and promotes impartiality. When this is present, a feeling of threat or negativity is removed from individuals, so their openness to listen and participate is enhanced and their  attention can be truly focused on the discussion at hand.

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Discover Why “The Thinking Environment” Is Crucial – Part 1

The Thinking Environment In this 10 part series, I explore the Ten Components (ten behaviours) of The Thinking Environment™ by Nancy Kline and how they impact relationships and interactions with my own real life examples.

“Time to think: listening to ignite the human mind.” (Nancy Kline)

Each Component is introduced with the principle and definition behind it, followed by an explanation and personal experience of each Component reflecting practical relevance, understanding, and applicability of the Component in a bigger context.

“The Thinking Environment” Component One – Attention

Principle

“Attention is an act of creation.”

Definition

“Listening with palpable respect and genuine interest without interruption.”

Attention to me is a form of mindfulness. It is being present in the moment, conscious of one’s self in relation to how conscious and present you are for another through the action of listening to them and being aware of the impact your level of attention has on them.

“Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity” is another saying that articulates the value that this component can have on the receiving person.

As a listener, if I truly wish to engage with someone and connect on an authentic and deeper level with them– I have to consciously remind myself to listen with this kind of attention.

This is true respect for someone else. On one hand, it is intangible in that it can be a silent contract between talker and listener, initiated by the listener – which in essence shifts the dynamic of the interaction and can set the tone of that interaction.

It is powerful, hence the impact it has as a core Component.

Personal Experience

As a facilitator and chair in various business roles, the gift of consciously creating and managing attention of this kind to others is a key leadership attribute.

Amongst other characteristics, it shows an inclusive and integrative leadership style.

Through this approach, I am able to control the dynamic of the group through this attention with others.

In this facilitator role, my calm, respectful listening promotes participation while reducing ego – as the facilitator is not ‘competing’ with the group and this sets the expectation for how others conduct themselves and interact with others in a meeting.

Attention of this kind, is not an inherent attribute in humans, as although we are social beings, our desire to matter and be heard can suppress our listening skills.

We are also competitive by nature in business and getting ahead, thus this kind of attention has to be an “act of creation”.

In these roles – I have dealt with gender, ego and dominating issues and through managing and maintaining consistent, impartial openness to hear and receive what each person has to say and using the power of Attention in this way, I am able to diffuse and maintain control of meetings.

This has proven over time to show this “palpable” (thus becoming tangible) respect. The structured board format is the perfect platform to subtly introduce this Component as it blends well with the overall purpose of a board – to each give input, be heard, discuss strategies, and make joint decisions.

Conclusion

Having consciously practiced this form of attention giving many times in various scenarios, I am constantly surprised at the power of influence it has over the dynamics of the interaction – to helping a friend really feel heard and lift her spirits – thus empowering her thinking processes as she felt, to facilitating professional interactions in a mature and focused way.

As we go through all Ten Components (behaviours), you will see how they all work hand-in-hand with each other, yet each one is so powerful on its own.

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Mindful Management – weird or wonderful?

What is mindfulness? or Mindful management?

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Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way; on purpose, in the present moment and non-judgmentally.

Mindfulness is about being fully awake in our lives. It is about perceiving the exquisite vividness of each moment. We feel more alive. We also gain immediate access to our own powerful inner resources for insight, transformation, and healing. (Jon Kabat-Zinn)

In a nutshell –it is being fully conscious of, and in the present moment and paying attention to whatever that moment can bring.

Mindfulness practices like meditation or breathing exercises help us to manage our emotions and bring clarity to thought processes. It is through this, that we can enhance our connection with others.

However, in the fast paced world we live in, practicing mindfulness could even be just stopping what we are doing to take the proverbial “deep breath”, slow down for a moment and reconnect with ourselves and what we are doing in that moment, that can make us mindful.

We can see through this explanation that mindfulness is a leadership trait, but how does it help us to manage mindfully?

Taking a mindful approach in our interactions with others, impacts the interaction. For example, a manager ensures instructions are carried out by those under them.

So, if a manager was mindful in the way they executed and managed the instructions given, perhaps the relationship and the desired outcomes could also be enhanced?

How would that work?

Being present in the moment and conscious of ourselves would mean we are more aware of our actions and the impact those actions have on others.

So the approach taken in managing others is considering how we influence them and what impact our actions towards others will have on the outcomes we want.

We might think we are being mindful when we manage, but it’s more than just being caring and considerate – it is being open to what is happening then and there in that moment.

It is to really immerse yourself into the present moment and consider all impacts that your actions as a manager can have, that results in mindful managing.

It is only when we are truly conscious of how we are influencing others in the workplace and what impact we have on them, that we can reflect on our behaviour and adapt or change it.

This is how we start to become self-aware and can enhance our relationships with our staff.

Below is a video and insights on Jon Kabat Zinn mindfulness exercises at a session he did for the Google team.

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Business Growth – How to create that “bigger picture” view

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Why The Bigger Picture is Important for Business Growth!

Sometimes we just get stuck in the operations of our business – trying to make the customer happy while facing challenges with suppliers, debtors, creditors, staff and everything else that goes with having your own small business.

We forget to stand back and take a deeper look at who and what we are and where we are going and most importantly, how we are going to get there.

What are my company growth strategies?

Yes, it is scary sometimes as we crawl to stay ahead of economic downturns, but when we are stuck in an operational rut (inertia) we lose sight of opportunities not only for sustainability, but for growth and change.

Types of growth strategies.

Tip 1:    When in doubt, pull yourself back – away from all the small detail and look at the bigger picture.  This clears out the clutter and helps you keep aligned with your vision, mission and promise.

Tip 2:    Find more perspectives – a business associate or mentor to give you that fresh insight and another world view.  The power of knowledgeable, practical and relevant feedback that is away from the operational (emotional) connection to your business yet relevant to your specific needs, is profound.

Tip 3:    Always be open to learn and grow.

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Creating a circular management team around you

Circular management is about engaging in perspectives with those around you, specifically your management team.

management teamAs top managers in business, the ability to look at situations holistically and from the widest viewpoint possible is a prerequisite so that the decisions we make are as informed and as accurate as possible so our chances of assessing a problem and sourcing a solution are improved.

Yet why don’t we engage the perspectives of our management team and staff around us?

Each of our views of the world are incomplete versions of the actual reality.

Enhancing communication and being open to discussing perspectives, ideas and solutions with your management team not only provides a collective and deeper awareness of situations.

Plus a circular management team also empowers the individuals and the team to take initiative and think strategically, which is a win / win scenario in any situation.

How to be an effective manager and run a management team successfully is a process and all available methodologies needs exploring for optimum results.

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Creating an environment of eager and empowered staff

As said last week, inviting the perspectives of your management team and staff empowers individuals to take initiative and think strategically.  Productivity, efficacy and efficiency are pretty much a job expectation and a paid for service, but how can you make someone want to do something better?

If we didn’t have to work, we wouldn’t. Yes, we need to find something that stimulates our minds and keeps us active but why should someone be going the extra mile for us?empowered staff

As a manager you need to get your staff’s buy-in to have eager and empowered staff.  To do this, you need to create desirability and feasibility for the employee.

Desirability in this context refers to a measure of attractiveness of an outcome for the employee – in most cases it is the opportunity to excel, prove they can do something by being entrusted with contributing more than what you contractually engaged them to do – and the chance to learn and grow.

Feasibility in this context refers to the relevance – it makes sense to do as you have suggested, as the employee can now see the future benefits (for them) which creates desirability.   If you can start to consider the staff’s perspectives and their future value of contributing to the bigger picture, you can create this buy-in and work in a circular-management format which will go a long way towards contributing to creating an environment of eager and empowered staff.

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How not to fear Company Growth

Growth is a natural evolution of adapting to changes over time. Even if your company does not grow in size, complexity, market share or turnover – there are fundamentals of change inherently happening in your company. The environment and market you operate in is constantly changing. Your staff are growing and changing over time – individually and collectively as a workforce.

To keep up with this type of ‘change’, the company will need to continually adapt to these external and internal forces to stay focused on their objectives. We know that as people, we grow over time through our experiences. We then reflect on these experiences and adapt our behaviour and thinking as we move forward. This applies to company growth too. To look ahead and have the capability to adapt to the natural changes and growth of your environment – your company also needs to grow, adapt and change.

Therefore, before we look at ‘growing’ the company’s turnover and profit– we need to look at the adaptability of the company to these inherent changes and growths happening around you.

How do you do this?

Look at the level of your company’s resilience to changes in your environment as discussed above. How in-tune and adaptable are you with what is going on around you? Understand your mission, vision and promise. Ask yourself the following:

1. Where are we as a company now?
2. Do we know where we are going?
3. Are we moving toward where we want to go?
4. If not, how are we going to get there?

If you can answer these questions you will therefore have a deeper awareness of your company’s resilience to the inevitable change and growth around you, then your fear of growth and change can be greatly reduced.

Next week we will look at how to take this understanding and transition from an income generating (craft) to a profit generating (enterprise) entity.

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How To Transition from Income Generating to Profit Generating!

Understanding the transitioning from an income generating (craft) to a profit generating (enterprise) entity

From what I have seen, many SMEs are the result of what could be called ‘accidental entrepreneurship’.

With many South Africans needing to provide their own income steam due to the high demands on the employment sector, many take the leap to create this income stream through honing their craft and passion or creating a small operating entity (an SMME), selling a service or products as an entrepreneur.profit generating

After a while with the initial objective being achieved of generating an income, we often continue on the same course as a means to an end without considering the implications of evolutionary growth (as discussed last week).

Once our ‘company’ has survived the first year, then the second and so on – we suddenly realised that our little craft or entity has become lucrative and is suddenly a company – with more staff, structure and complexity, and is moving from a mere income generating to profit generating business.

The fear of what to do next with the implications and consequences attached to being a shareholder/manager is often the down fall of most SMEs at this stage.

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As discussed last week, before you can grow your company you need to know where you are right now (income generating or profit generating), to where you are going and how you want to get there.

The thought of contemplating new processes, capital, statutory and HR issues (including being the staff psychologist and personal banker) and everything else in-between that goes with being a shareholder/manager, is enough to send us running for the hills.

But if we can stop and reflect where we are in a trusted space and give ourselves the opportunity to grown in unison with our companies and structure, failure can be averted.profit generating

This is where mentorship is providing an essential support system not only for providing a guiding framework to evolve you and your company to the next level, but the sharing of skillsets and knowledge through the experiences of others over time is the best investment one can make into their future sustainable growth.

Thus, without a single doubt I can say that understanding the transitioning from an income generating (craft) to a profit generating (enterprise) entity is absolutely vital to your success!